DONT DO THESE ON YOUR FIRST DATE

DO NOT TALK ENDLESSLY ABOUT YOUR KIDS

If you are a widower, going on a date is not a bad thing

(it’s actually quite healthy). And it’s not a bad thing that you have kids,

just don’t let them be the main subject of your conversations.

DO NOT FORGET TO MENTION THAT YOU HAVE KIDS

On the other hand, failing to mention that you do have kids

can seem a bit dubious and dishonest. Your date deserves to know what

he/she is getting into if they decide to pursue a relationship.

DO NOT TALK ABOUT SEX

This should be obvious advice but don’t talk about sex on the first date

(unless that’s what you are solely looking for). If you are looking

for a long lasting relationship, you have to start building it on a

solid foundation and sex is not that foundation.

DO NOT TALK ABOUT YOUR PROBLEMS

Moaning about things while on a date can be very annoying for the

person you are with. Dating is supposed to be fun; it is supposed to be

a venue for two people to get to know each other.

DO NOT BE LATE

What’s more valuable than money? Time. Therefore you should treat

someone else’s time with the utmost respect. Being late to your

first date (or anything else for that matter) is a blatant disrespect.

If you are running late, call and inform them of the situation

(preferably before you’re supposed to be there).

DO NOT CANCEL AT THE LAST MINUTE

Again, time is valuable. If your date is already set, do not cancel it at the

last minute (that is if you want to continue seeing this person).

They have already scheduled you into their time and you need

to respect that.

DO NOT GO OUT WITH DIRTY CLOTHES

No matter how bad your day may be, never go on a date with dirty or

lousy clothes on. Food stains on clothes? Not attractive.

Wrinkled shirt? Still not attractive.

DO NOT FORGET TO MAKE SURE YOUR

DATE GETS HOME SAFE

Guys, be gentleman enough to drive your date safely home.

If you do not have a car, at least get her a cab with a nice

driver to ensure that she is in good hands.