WAYS TO TELL IF SOMEONE IS LYING TO YOU
Added on: 1st Nov 2015
THIS IS PROBABLY ONE THAT YOU ALREADY KNOW
INSTINCTUALLY, BUT LIARS WILL BE HESITANT
TO MAKE EYE CONTACT WITH YOU
TO COMPLICATE THINGS, IF SOMEONE IS LYING
TO YOU THEY MIGHT MAKE TOO MUCH EYE CONTACT.
POSSIBLY BECAUSE THEY ARE AWARE THAT LIARS
ARE KNOWN TO AVOID EYE CONTACT. WE KNOW,
IT'S CONFUSING.
A LIAR TENDS TO PROVIDE MORE INFORMATION THAN
NECESSARY, OR TO ANSWER QUESTIONS THAT THEY
WEREN'T EVEN ASKED IN THE FIRST PLACE. THIS MAY
COME FROM A DESIRE TO JUSTIFY ONESELF
A GENUINE SHRUG INDICATING UNCERTAINTY IS USUALLY
COMPLETE AND SYMMETRICAL. A PARTIAL SHRUG
MAY INDICATE DECEPTION
FOR POTENTIALLY OBVIOUS REASONS LIARS ARE LIKELY
TO STUTTER. IT'S HARD TO TALK STRAIGHT WHEN
YOU'RE MAKING THINGS UP AS YOU GO!
A LIAR TENDS NOT TO USE CONTRACTIONS. FOR EXAMPLE,
"I DIDN'T DO IT" STATISTICALLY TENDS TO BE A MORE
TRUTHFUL STATEMENT THAT "I DID NOT DO IT"
A LIAR IS UNLIKELY TO EXHIBIT A DUCHENNE SMILE.
WHAT IS THAT? A DUCHENNE SMILE IS WHEN YOU USE THE
INVOLUNTARY MUSCLES AROUND YOUR EYES AS WELL
AS YOUR MAJOR MUSCLES AROUND THE MOUTH.
THE KEY WORD HERE IS INVOLUNTARY,
MEANING YOU CAN'T FAKE A TRUE SMILE.
A LIAR WILL TEND TO TURN AWAY FROM YOU OR
SHOW SIGNS OF DISCOMFORT
WHILE IT'S DIFFICULT TO SPOT, A SLIGHT INCREASE IN
VOICE PITCH INDICATES THAT SOMEBODY IS LIKELY LYING
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